Why am I like this?

Question

I feel very... annoying, and boring. I’ve experienced it many times in the past. People grow bored of me and get annoyed by me easily. It really really drags me down, and throws me into an emotional state. Does anyone else experience this? Is there anyway to make myself feel better? I’m feeling very heartbroken and lonely at the moment.

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I know the feeling. Sometimes, it can just be so hard to think positively about yourself. Just remember, you are your own worst critic. No body else is going to think of you as hanky as you do yourself. Try to Give yourself some love. ❤️
Also, taking good care of yourself can be really helpful for you mental state as well. When I’m feeling bad, I try be go for a run, drink water, do things to make me feel good and proud of myself. That shows on the outside too, making us more pleasant in general. 😁

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I’ve felt like that before. It’s a confidence issue. Try building your self-esteem.

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Some people just don't have the greatest social skills (myself included.) Reading up on ways to start conversations can help.

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I understand how you feel. I talk when I'm anxious and I'm pretty much always anxious but around people I'm comfortable with like my husband I never talk and he gets bored but when I get excited and chatter on about something he usually shuts me down because it's not something he's interested in and doesn't exact know how to feign enthusiasm. It makes me feel like I'm defective. I always wanted to be well liked with a close group of friends but I was always the shadow friend, last invited if at all, trailing behind the group, left out until I just faded out. It sucks. It's depressing and the fact that im so aware of it makes me all the more anxious and socially awkward

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