MIL DRRRRAAAMMMAA

So exactly as the title states this is about mother in law drama..

This woman has been such a issue in my life since I came to be pregnant. We were close before but it’s like when I got pregnant things changed.

I won’t get into every last detail or we’ll be here forever, so let’s just start it when I had my babygirl.

Now mind you, the woman lives down the street- like walking distance from my house. When I came home from the hospital my boyfriend had to go right back to work to make up for the fact I wasn’t going to be working for a few months. She never once called or came by with some food, or a helping hand. Instead she would ask us to come by for dinner when it was kinda impossible. I was breastfeeding and since my boyfriend was using the car to work I couldn’t exactly get down there.. you’d think ok maybe she can just come 2 seconds up the street instead- nope.

In the over 10 months my daughters been here she has come over 9 times. NINE TIMES?

Okay.. fine, live your life. But because of that I won’t go out of my way for her- call me a bitch for that, ok, but I just don’t understand how a woman can never just stop by when she’s so close. My mom, dad, aunts uncles cousins all live out of town and still manage to come by once a week or every other weekend just to come visit or help out since my boyfriend still works full time and he’s a driver so his hours are long.

So my latest issue with her is now she’s telling my boyfriend that “I make it difficult for her to come over” and now she doesn’t like me and thinks I’m trying to keep her from her grandchild which is so far from true I just wish she could be more considerate of my daughters schedule she has a strict schedule for naps and she goes to bed at 7 and I don’t change that for my family or my friends so she’s no exception.

I’ll insert screen shots of the only two times she ever texted me to come by.

Be honest am I making it difficult? I know I’m not like YEAH COME OVER SCREW MY PLANS but I’ve given her options and times when it would be a good time to come and she doesn’t or just doesn’t respond.

And yes the only two times she’s ever contacted me to come by was twice last month and my daughter was born in May.

(Mind you I do eyelash extensions from home which most appointments take from a hour to 2 1/2 hours and I usually have one or two clients on Saturdays so that’s what I’m talking about when I say I was with a client)