Family Pregnancy reaction after loss

Hey guys! I just want to know how your family reacted once you told them you were pregnant again after losing a baby? I had a difficult ending of my pregnancy with my son.. he was born at 32weeks 6 days due to preeclampsia.. and then my second baby had a neural tube defect and my water broke early (14 weeks) I ended up delivering baby at 19 weeks 3 days.. now I am pregnant again and wanting to just start fresh and I just want people to be happy.. my mom seems to think I should just stop trying all together.. what do you guys think ? And what did your families think?