I’m pregnant w baby #2 & I want to have stability for myself & children without having to depend on my SO all the time. He drives trucks & makes a good amount of money but at the same time I absolutely hate depending on people. I wanna feel like I’m doing something w my life for my kids other than staying at home taking care of the house. I want to have some income coming in as well. I’m thinking about waiting 4 months & joining the military after I have my baby. I’ve talked about this w him but he does not like the idea at all. I’m kind of torn because I get where he’s coming from w staying home & taking care of the kids but at the same time this isn’t the 1920’s 🙄 I feel like I can take care of them even more w financial stability & at the same time all of the stress won’t be on him all the time. I just need to know if I’m tripping or not 🤦🏾‍♀️