What would you do if your man did this?

So last night in the middle of the night my baby woke up and was crying cause she was hungry so I was sitting in bed trying to calm her so i woke up my fiance to go warm up her bottle cause I pre make them before we go to bed so all we have to do is warm them up. So he says "no my eyes burn" "no I want to sleep" so I bickered with him about it. AND THEN THIS MAN YELLS AT ME AND GRABS ME BY MY PONYTAIL AND PULLS MY HAIR and gets up and goes to warm up the bottle. So I said that was really mean and belittling and he said "you like having your hair pulled so". But honestly it just made me feel really bad and annoyed. What would you do?

Ps: when I told him it was really mean he said I shouldn't have woke him up and stuff.

Oh and he called me lazy for not getting up to go warm up the bottle.