Am I in the wrong here?
Found in his email he signed up for 2 dating sites NOT apps..profile was not filled out, but he added his photo to both...messages unread...
Anyways we talked about 3 times over the last 13 weeks
once he asked me to clear the air about it I DID
He said he chose ME, to be with ME forever, no one else, he's not. interested in anyone else, he would not fuck another woman, flirt or touch another woman, text another woman, he is NOT interested in other women, He would not cheat, he believes and took to heart our marriage vows. he has said this over and over to me.
He admitted when he realized he signed up for these sites he said oops signed off never signed in again.
Anyways... now?
I brought up my verizon bill to him since we upgraded somehow we used ALL 4GB of data in less than 24 hours for the new cycle
He asked how
I said according to this I used 0%
But you used 57% on social media 11% videos 3% Audio 27% messages and 2% maps
Suddenly he got angry and said I am gonna sell my phone this is bullshit, I'm not doing nothing, Verizon is lying. He said I was accusing him of doing something.
I said you're wrong I was just going over our bill
He said so I'm wrong? the way i feel is wrong? I must be stupid!!!! Don't worry won't tell you how I feel again
The fight about the bill lasted 14 hours straight.
a few days later..
I came back home from work
He asked how my day went i said you would not believe it Sarah went into her car and her husband left a used condom wrapper under the seat, Bill claims he picked it up off the floor after they had sex put it in his pocket and went to work realized it was in there and tossed it on the floor...sarah thinks hes cheating..I mean IDK i think sex in cars is for teens...I would never....but other than that nothing else was exciting...
My husband replied I would...if we were out somewhere in the mood ya I would and I have done the same as bill put a condom wrapper i found on our floor in my pocket and forget to toss it..
I said ok
He said SO. now what are you accusing me of?
I said ummm nothing
He said well i feel you are
I said sorry you feel that way but thats not what i was implying
he got all pissed off once again
If my hubby runs out he says don't worry i will try not to be gone long oooook?
But nearly anything we discuss he thinks or feels in a ways i am accusing him of something. Yes, he is wrong.
When i tell him that he thinks I am saying and he said this to i feel like you are saying I am retarded, how i think or feel is wrong and he thinks when i say thats not what i was implying or getting at or say he is wrong he thinks I am playing the innocent card and he asked why I won't admit to doing this stuff on purpose to piss him off I AM NOT.
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