So I just need some perspective, am I crazy and overreacting? My husband goes out with his friends to play board games 1-2 times a week, not always every week but at least every other, sometimes he's out really late. We have a 2yo and a 5 week old. I've mentioned that with a new baby things are kind of hectic, especially around bedtime, and I would appreciate if he was home to help out or just to spend time with me and the kids. He says he wants to see his friends and it's not that often so it shouldn't be a big deal. So I usually concede. Tonight he got home around 1am and I was up with the baby and looked at the clock and said hi, he got really defensive and said he knew I would make a big deal about the time, I asked why he was getting so defensive about it and he said it's my fault he's defensive because I'm not supportive of what he wants to do. Like, is it wrong for me to ask him to stay home or at least expect less attitude from him when he's the one getting home late? I feel like my feelings and wants are being totally ignored here