So me and my baby daddy planned our baby he actually begged cried and pleaded for a family (wife step son and baby of his own plus he had his step daughter from a previous relationship) as soon as I got pregnant he started cheating doing drugs partying wanted no part of the baby in and out my whole pregnancy I left while pregnant then he kept asking for his family back then the baby came he did ok for a about a month if that begged for his family back moved us in with him again just to do it all over again we left again it’s been months now he’s back on the same shit on for a week then drops him for this chick it’s just aggravating af like your the one who begged for a baby why can’t you just be a dad co parent make shit simple