Who’s sex life is MIA?

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Well... my husband literally never initiates.  It’s so frustrating.  My sex drive is high and it just gets to the point where I’m just done initiating.   We have countless conversations and honestly it never changes.   I’m going on strike I swear to god.   Anyone else have this issue?  I’m dying over here

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If I really want it I don’t mind initiating 😝 it’s a win win in the end

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This is my life right now. I put my foot down last night and told him if nothing changes my type A ass will make a calendar of sex days each month and he can just expect and prepare for it on the scheduled nights because I’m sick of no sex. It used to be daily, I know that’s asking a lot with our busy lives, but 3/4 times a week isn’t. Could your husband possibly be going through something either medical or mental? I thought mine was depressed, but turns out he’s been hiding a broken tooth from me (he’s afraid of the dentist) so I made him an appointment for tomorrow. I’m hoping it helps him. I hope it gets better for you.

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We have periods of time where one or the other lacks a sex drive.  This pregnancy has been awesome though.  The attraction and initiation has been stellar on both sides!

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My hubby has been with some crappy females in his life so he's learned to not ask anymore. Now with me I'm constantly all over him lol it sucks he rarely initiates it but I've learned to just hint at it and act so deprived so he would 😂

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I'm with you!

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Yes!!! We used to F**k like rabbits for the first 2ish years and now the 3rd and especially this last year, sex has been very slim...my bf has been depressed and works an effed up work schedule.. (nights and days in the same week 12 hour shifts 430-430) I get he is tired, but sex is important in a healthy relationship! I’m starting to feel like maybe he’s not as attracted to be since he doesn’t want to initiate😕😞 I’m lucky to get sex maybe once we week?..

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Dude my husband has been deployed for the last month and this is after he came back briefly from a training for said deployment. I’ve had sex like 3 times in the last 4-5 months. I’d take anything at this point.

Who’s sex life is MIA?

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