Heart vs Mind 😣

I keep telling my boyfriend I’m unhappy with our relationship and he thinks it’s because I want to be with someone else...when in reality I just don’t want to be with him. I just want to be alone for a while, focus on my daughter/life and get myself back on the happy trail. Although he’s a sweetheart & shows me affection like I’ve never received, he’s judgmental, not as outgoing as I would like and very insecure. I don’t know if it’s because of our age difference (6 years) and/or different upcoming but it annoys tf out of me!!! He judges the music I listen to (says Cardi B & etc. is music for hoes😒), made me take out my tongue ring (bc it’s thotish🙄), gets upset when I wear leggings or dresses (I can’t help that I’m a curvy lady), hates for me to post pics on social media (says I’m looking for attention..and no I don’t post revealing pics) and doesn’t like the fact that I have male friends.....I’ve talked to him multiple times about taking a small break..just enough time for both of us (mostly me) to think things through and he assumed there was another guy. I’ve only given him 1 reason to have iffy feelings towards me and that’s because at the very beginning of us meeting, I was sexting another guy 🙃 (not to justify my actions but it was before we were actually in a relationship and at the time he was dealing with “maybe baby” drama). I want to try taking another break but I just know he’s going to assume something, it’s just gonna go downhill and push me to REALLY be done because I’m tired of the assumptions and arguing. Part of me wants to stay because I see potential in him, my daughter (not his) is involved and I don’t want to hurt him BUT the other half wants to leave because we’re not on the same page with certain things, I no longer feel the way I felt about him and I’m just all around tired of trying with this relationship. Help meeeeee 😩