What do y’all think?
So I just stopped talking to one of my best friends. Was I right or wrong? (We’re in the 8th grade but I don’t wanna hear that we’re too young for drama. Shit happens at any age🙄)
So like a week before I stopped talking to her we got in an argument. She had recently broken up with her boy friend. She was telling me things that weren’t true. She was saying that he would dig his hands down her pants when she didn’t want to, and that he would force her to kiss him, ask for nudes, and be a total jerk. And he didn’t say anything on their anniversary, and told her from text message that he still liked his ex. He said “Oh I still have feelings for ______ by the way.” So any best friend would be like I think you need to break up with him he’s not good for you. Her family and our other friends were telling her the same thing. I especially pushed her because she had been crying in the phone and worrying because I didn’t wanna see her like that. And my mother warned me not to get involved with that kinda stuff and I that I can’t save everyone but I didn’t listen. I cared about her. So the next day she broke things off. And he said oh ok. And I was like, can I yell at him. And she said do it, no balls. So I yelled at him. Because I was upset that he had hurt my best friend. Looking back I shouldn’t have, I should’ve just dropped it. I’ll admit that, and I did apologize to him. But get this. A day or two later she said that she had messaged him and I was like what did you say? She gave me her phone and I only read a little bit before I got pissed off because she was apologizing. I gave her back her phone. Later on I asked to see the rest and she sent me a few, I could tell because some things were chopped off in the screen shots. I told her to send me the rest.



Y’all can’t tell me that you wouldn’t be fuckin pissed that your best friend just threw you under the buss and blamed you for everything and talked shit like what? She later apologized and I forgave her and we were all good. How ever, a week later (last week) we get to linch and I see her “ex” staring at her and she fuckin runs off to the band room with him like it’s some kind of titanic scene. I then go to the bathroom and call her and she declines me a few times and then she answers. And I said, your back together with him aren’t you. I was pissed. After him calling me a bitch, and her talking shut and blaming me for everything she gets back together with him? She made me look like a complete ass and got back together with him. I cried. I felt betrayed. I would’ve rather her tell me than me finding out from her running off into the fucking sunset with him. My other friend Lauren was big mad cause she was sick of her being fake. So when we got back to class she spat on her. (I didn’t tell her to and I didn’t think that she would but she did) do y’all think that I had a reason to be upset? If you read all of this then thank you but I’m really conflicted. I’m still not gonna talk to her but I need an unbiased opinion.
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