I HATE THIS WOMAN. I was 26 taking care of her kids with my husband like her little boys were my own. Drove 50 miles one way to drop them off and pick them from school while her ass stayed 1 mile away and wouldn’t pick them up for 7 months. After we gave the boys to her, she stopped sending them to school. They both didn’t go for months!!! The school didn’t do shit about it. Less than 2 years later and turns out she’s in the same boat. Drugged up, no job, no housing, kids are homeless. My husband and I kindly take her kids in again for 9 months this time and this time my husband finally grows a pair to call CPS after I told him I couldn’t do this anymore when we hit our 9th month mark. We put them in a really good school and worked with them daily until 9pm catching them up for school work. Both had failed to get in their grades for their age level because they were so behind. On top of all of this, my husband thought them visiting her on the weekends would give us a break! This turned out to be worse!!! We would have to do all the driving to weird places, one of them being a bar! She was manipulating the kids anytime they spoke with her and using them for benefits but my husband wouldn’t legally go get custody because he didn’t want to be a father to them. The thing is she’s not drugged up to the point where she’s completely not functional. Her ass goes clubbing and partying every night and leaves her children in every night or locks them in a room or ends up exposing them to everything. Her child was 6 years old and she was texting me saying her boys are grown and can take care of themselves while she goes to a bar for a drink. Wtf!?!? Anyhoo, I don’t think CPS cares much either. On top of that, she is a manipulative ass liar and she’s trained her kids to lie. They would lie and steal from us. They had mental issues and the 12 year old would pee on himself constantly and the 9 year old one still poops on himself. Their mom is completely ok with this and refused to let them see a psychiatrist bc she thinks her children will expose her. For months, she lived out of her car with her children. This is all because she won’t get a job and won’t work and won’t pay her bills.

So CPS commands her to take her children back from us if she is stable and to show pride and not let people know she’s fucked up in the head, she takes them and drops them at a random “friend’s” house. CPS never checked. Smfh. Today I get a call from the school nurse and the principal saying the children are not in good condition and the younger one needs serious mental health and their house condition and their behavior is really bad and that the mother told them not to contact my husband and I. I told the school to call CPS because literally, my husband is too passive and he doesn’t want to be involved. I will probably slap the shit out of her face if she says anything to me further because for years, I’ve fucking let her bark at me since I was the new one in their family. But after going through this for 9 months, where she never came to see the kids and I tucked them in every night, quit my job to help them, spent all my $ on the kids, didn’t get a dime from their bitch ass mom while she claimed them on taxes and blew all that $ away, I will not STAND FOR SHIT! I’m soooo upset! I don’t understand why CPS won’t take the kids away. She abuses them, doesn’t send them to school, exposes them to drugs, leaves them alone (now they’re older) but still doesn’t give 2 fucks about them except looks at them as food stamp cards and health benefits!!! Her older son who is turning 13 this year is still in 5th grade and doesn’t know how to read still! We took him to a reading specialist and had him caught up so much just so her bum ass can take them to throw all their education away. God blessed this woman with 2 healthy kids and she’s ruining their lives. She makes my blood boil honestly. I’m pregnant so I shouldn’t even be stressing honestly but this woman is a blood sucking parasite. She’s used up all of her family members and they don’t want shit do with her. The school nurse thinks we should try talking to her. Makes no sense because she doesn’t listen to anybody. The last time we spoke, I tried begging her not to make her younger son skip school for no reason and she said she’s the mother and can do what she wants! I hate this bitch with a passion. When we took the boys in, they came with no clothes! She gave me a fucking dirty ass bucket with underwear full of shit in there and text me saying she sent their clothes with my husband! Smfh. I wish someone would slap some SENSE IN THIS BITCH!