Anyone else nervous?

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Anyone else nervous about telling your family that you're pregnant? I am 4 weeks today and my husband and I are so happy about this pregnancy. It is our 3rd baby so we expected some negative reactions but so far they are breaking my heart. My aunt literally said "well, I'll tell you congratulations to make you feel better"... 😔 and I haven't told my parents yet because we are waiting until Easter. But I know my parents wont be happy for us. Ever since my daughter was born she keeps saying things like "oh you've got one of each! Now you can stop" or "seeing aidens behavior, is that deterring you from having a third?" I answered no and she rolled her eyes.... ugh. Idk it's just that this is 100% for sure our last baby and I want it to be a happy occasion and I want support from the people I love. So far we arent really getting it either... :(

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Why can't people be happy??

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What is wrong about having a third child? Some people have 6, and are all happy.. 
your family should be happy, and either way this is your life - not theirs

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I waited until 18 weeks to tell my mum I was pregnant I was so worried about her opinion as I have three already and this was a happy accident for us, I’m also 40, and she surprised me by being happy but with that said, I let her know why I waited so long to tell her that I feared judgement from her and it opened her eyes to the way she can be, at the end of the day only you and your husband and kids matter don’t sweat other people’s reactions that’s their burden to bear not yours be happy xxx

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This is one of those situations where you tell people to fuck off. 
I hate negative people & their negative bullshit. 
If my family ever reacted this way I would tell them to mind their own business & keep it to themselves if they can’t be happy about it.

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Wow! I’m so sorry! Three is not even a lot of children... at all! Congratulations

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We always got the “you have one of each so you’re good right?” And my grandmother says “the middle child is going to be left out why would you do that to him?” It’s annoying but it’s our life, we wanted 3, we’re having 3, we are the ones who raise and support these children so ultimately it’s our choice. No one said anything negative when we announced really, just that they think we’re crazy but our parents and grandparents all each only had 2 so they don’t understand more than 2.

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