Has anyone still not announced their pregnancy? I'll be 19 weeks on Sunday. People know, I'm visibly pregnant. I just havent done a big to-do on social media.

Mainly because I'm super cautious. I've had to unannounce a pregnancy pretty far into it, and its miserable.

I had a" friend" ask me why I'm keeping my son a secret. She said she just didnt understand it. First the question pissed me off , then it kind of hurt my feelings. I'm not ashamed. I love him. Im just paranoid, an Want to wait until I'm further along.

Is that so wrong?