Anyone else this terrified?

Question

My Husband and I have officially started trying for our rainbow baby. We had a missed miscarriage with our first pregnancy at 9 weeks and had a D&C 6 months ago. This is our first month trying again, it happened first try last time so I’m hoping this will be the same. I knew I would be anxious because of our first experience, but I am so terrified and I haven’t even gotten a positive test. I just don’t know how I’m going to make it through the 12 weeks without being terrified every single day. 
Anyone else feeling this way?

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I understand. My husband and I lost our little one back in August and it emotionally tore us up. I’m currently pregnant with our rainbow and it’s really hard. I mean EXTREMELY hard. Every trip to the bathroom is scary. I hate using the bathroom. We just wake up everyday knowing that this is a different pregnancy, different baby, and a different ending. We have hope and trust in God that this baby is going to be okay. It’s hard, but I know you can do it.🌈

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First, I’m really sorry for your loss. I guess it’s normal to feel like that. Last month I had several strong positives and a week later I was heavy bleeding and everything was gone, my body went back to normal a week later and i ovulated just a few days later. Now I’m 4 days late, having symptoms and I’m just terrified to test and see a positive, I never I thought I would be afraid of a positive but the heartbreak was so strong last time that I’m just trying to ignore it for as long as I can, it sounds stupid but if I don’t see it then I won’t be scared every day that if I’m going to miscarry again or no. Every feeling it’s valid.

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I’m in the exact same situation. I lost my first baby in January at 15 weeks. I was utterly devastated and still am and I will be forever. We got told to wait 3 cycles and my next period is due in 5 days and after that we’re going to start trying again. I am so so terrified and don’t know how I’ll get through until I’m past the 15 week mark. It’s meant to be an exciting time and I feel like it’s been taken away. Try and relax as much as possible which Is what I’m going to try my best to do also. Wishing you so much luck, happiness and joy for the future. You will get what you deserve ❤️❤️

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Same. I had a chemical pregnancy last month (5wks) and it was as absolutely heartbreaking. Just got a faint positive and trying to be excited/hopeful but I just have a ton of anxiety 😭
Baby dust, mama!

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What you are feeling is so normal. I am so sorry that you had to go through the loss like so many of us. I am exactly 10 weeks today after multiple miscarriages. Every week when I reach another week closer to the 12th, I celebrate a little. Exercise and a healthy diet helps with the anxiety but it's also reminding yourself that stressing out about it does more harm. I try to breathe deeply when my anxiety goes through the roof and take a walk. In the end its out of our hands, all we can do is make good choices. Good luck! I truly hope you get you BFP soon

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I can relate..I had a miscarriage about a month ago my boyfriend and I started trying again, 2 weeks after I stopped bleeding. I’m so terrified now. I don’t want to miscarry again. This time around I’m trying to do everything I can to better prepare my body for another pregnancy. I’ve been freaking out downloading different apps going on different websites hoping that I’ll get answers but nothing seems to work or make me feel better.

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