I’m hurt and confused.. my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years and are usually on good terms. But when we fight he gets incredibly mean, like just today when we were starting to get into it in ;) the bedroom, out of nowhere though I had a sharp pain in my stomach (probably from overeating the night before or something) and I said “hey I’m hurting, sorry baby can we maybe do it a little later” right when that happened he said okay then got up and took a shower. Everything was fine, until 5 mins later he kept saying “fuck me- as in poor me” I asked him what was wrong and he said that he was just pissed that we can’t have sex, pulled out his phone and checked some box in a sheet that he has for every time that I say “no to sex”. I’m confused and hurt, did I do something wrong?