3 more weeks! go away with the questions and expectations!!! 😔😵

Im 37 weeks and im going bonkers!!! i avoid my own mum on weekends cos she cant help but ask me about my pregnancy and have you prepared this and that, you should have snacks in your hospital bag.. i just had lunch with my inlaws yesterday and MIL just blurted out "so after you deliver you are going straight to your mum's right?" i live 45 minutes away from my mum and i have said like 5 times i am going straight to my own home after my baby! the next day my sister inlaw (not really fond of her cos she can be nasty and likes to backbite) asked "but you are spending one month at your mum's after you deliver right?" My mum insisted she stay at my place when im 39weeks on friday nights im like what for?! she said so that i can go to the hospital with you when its time! i feel like yelling my head off, NO i do not want guests at 39, 40 or 41 weeks!!! you people are not coming over to sleep and "help me out" with anything and trash my place before i go in to labor!!! every day im getting annoying texts from mum and inlaws! the last time i had my daughter every one came and mess up my house, complained i didnt have netflix or wifi was slow, made comments that my windows are dirty (i lived literally infront of a construction site and who the hell cleans windows at 41wks of pregnancy?!), my mum broke my mop, threw away some stuff.. my mil also went in to my bedroom and comment about my decor.. 😔😵 feel like installing dead bolts on my door! Who visits a woman that jz gave birth 12 hours ago and talk shit about her house?!