Ok so I recently broke up with my boyfriend who was a year older than me and now I like another boy who is two years younger than me.

I’m 18. So that means he’s 16. And I’m technically an adult.

I would like to start off first by saying, yes. I understand the implications of a sexual relationship with someone who is still a minor. I would also like to add that I am, in fact, a virgin and have absolutely no plans of losing that status anytime soon.

I actually am very opposed to having sex considering on how I have no experience and I’m about to graduate and move to an amazing college to major in veterinary medicine.

I am old enough it realize this and make this decision. Yes I’m young. Just 18. But taking sex out of it, it’s just a two year difference. If I was 25 and he was 23 I’m sure it’d be different.

But my dad wants to start yelling at me and treating me like I’m a whore. His exact words, “You have so much going for you. You don’t need to be an idiot and act like a whore.”

This boy would only be my second boyfriend ever. IF we were even dating yet. But we’re not. He just asked me if I wanted to go on a walk down town because it’s pretty on Easter and my dad flipped the fuck out.

He’s talking to me like I’m a fucking idiot whose going to fuck the very next underage boy I see when I’ve never had any type of sexual encounter with a guy. The closest I’ve come is a kiss.

Not a French kiss. Just the touching of lips.

I know how to be smart. I know how to control myself.

And just because he was a horny little fuck at 18 doesn’t mean I can’t keep my fucking legs closed.

I could understand a warning. In fact, my mom took the time to kindly try and explain the serious consequences if I get physical with a boy younger than 18. I already knew them but my point is that she did it kindly. Without implying I’m a slut.

So if I’m moving away in August, old enough to pay for my own car, college, and lifestyle, I’m old enough to date whoever I want.

This is a rant yes but can someone tell me what they think? I’d like to hear an outside opinion. To know if unbiased people think he’s justified in getting pissed off at me and treating me like I just signed up to work as a prostitute because I have a crush on a guy who goes to my school, is two years younger, graduates next year, and it a month away from a license. Or if I’m right and he should mind his fucking business because even though he couldn’t keep his dick dry at 18, I can surely keep my vagina to myself.