Scaredy Cat

I have never ever posted in here so this is a first but I need advice. I am almost 24 years old and I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 months. It’s gotten pretty serious and we’ve both vocalized that we’re invested in this relationship and plan to take it to the end. However we have not used the L word yet. I’ve never been the one to say it first in relationships and I am terrified. So my question here is, should I tell him first or wait for him to say it to me first? And if you’ve said to your SO first, how did you go about it?