I don’t know what to do

Lexuh

My Husbands mom is still living with us. And she continues to talk crap about me. She even goes as far as telling my 10 year old step Daughter that I’m with her dad for money that I’m a gold digger and I’m evil. My step Daughter doesn’t believe it but it hurts me to know that this woman would go as far as to try manipulating my step Daughter in to not liking me. (There is so much more but just know this woman doesn’t have one lick of respect towards me.)

I keep telling my Husband that it time she has to go because I am no longer comfortable in my own house. There is so much tension and to know that she is spreading lies about me to her side of the family puts me in a fighting mode that disgusts me.

My Husband hasn’t said a word to his Mother about talking crap about me and I just feel helpless. I already told him that I feel completely disrespected especially because she lives in our house but before all this I was trying to get her on her feet.( I let this witch drive my car and everything when she didn’t have one.)

I Guess I’m just hurt that my Husband hasn’t defended me.

I feel so defeated and I wish so bad I had some family around here 😢 I’m already at my breaking point on wanting to leave. I love my Husband so much and I don’t want to divorce him but I’m completely stressed. Please any advice that can help me cope with what I’m feeling. I’m so desperate.

Ps. She lives off the government and gets that housing stuff. She just needs a job so she can save up for a deposit. She is capable of working but sadly is completely lazy. My Husband won’t lend her true money to move out because she is horrible with managing money.