I don’t want to share my baby..

My husband & I are trying to decide if we want visitors in the hospital. My mom will be there for my labor & delivery, so she will obviously be there after as well. My problem is...I don’t want any other visitors because I don’t think I’d let them hold her for longer than like, 30 seconds. Lol. He really wants his parents to come visit in the hospital, & I’m fine with his mom coming but I know I’m going to be so exposed I don’t really want his dad to be there. We aren’t that close. I just want to be comfortable. We’ve already told a couple family members what we’re thinking & they already aren’t respecting our wishes. They say “Well, I’m coming anyway”. I just want to tell them, “Well, you can come & drive an hour but you’re not holding her.” Is this selfish or wrong for me to be feeling this way? I mean..I’m the one carrying her all this time & I just want to be with her & hold her & not have to share her.... anyone else feeling like this?

Sorry for ranting..lol