So first off i work in a grocery store and at work im pregnant and a girl in another department is 2 months ahead of me! This is my first and her second, i was talking to another co-worker about preganancy and told her i felt like i was as big as the other girl.

What my coworker said was no your not as big but for 17 weeks your not supposed to be showing as much as you are, you not supposed to be showing till your 6 months along! I think she looked at my face and saw how disheartened i was because it made me extremely self conscious of my tummy, she quickly interjected woth but maybe its you showing in yhe front more.

How do you deal with comments like that?

It hurt my feelings and im very self conscious about my weight and feel like im fat because i was 200lbs 4 uears ago and when i got preggo i was down to 135. And im trying not to think about those things i know its for the baby and im eating healthy for most part!

And tips would be nice!

Any tips would be nice!