Lol @ old fashioned family members

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There are a few people in my family that think I should be upset about my pregnancy rather than excited because I’m unmarried.

I was recently talking to my mom about maybe going back on Facebook (I only had close family and friends on there, maybe 25 people) because then out of town family could see baby easier than me having to send them all a text with occasional photos like I do now. She asked me why I’d want to do that...well... I just explained why.

She said her and my grandma were talking about and thought it was best that I wasn’t on Facebook right now because of my “situation.” Probably best not to drag my shame out publicly. And that’s also why they’re not doing a shower for me (mind you, I’ve never asked nor expected one from them, and this is my third, but she has to make excuses now because HIS family is excited and HIS family is doing a shower for us).

Mind you, I’m a woman in my 30’s, who lived single and independently for 12 years before meeting my SO. And they still want to shame me because I’m pregnant and unmarried 😂

I’m just seriously over it and done talking to them all right now. I’ve put up with their meddling for years because I love them but now they’ve really crossed a line. I wanted this baby, I WILL be excited for this baby regardless of how they feel about it.