Help homegirl out

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year, and I really wanna have sex with him, but he tries treating me like I’m some fragile little thing. He says he doesn’t wanna hurt me cause I’m a virgin we’ve had oral and I luv it but like what’s the best way to start off without feeling pain cause homegirl is really just trynna ride dick into the sunset buttttttt. And my parents are Hispanic so they’re big in the no sex till marriage,I’m 19 and I just want it but don’t wanna seem like a hoe for asking for it ugh helphl