This is why you can’t vent to your friends

My husband cheated and wouldn’t stop talking to the other woman. I vented all this to my friend. At first she was helpful but now she hates him lol. I understand why because she cares for me. The weird thing is she cheated on her husband a year ago. They did counseling and they moved forward. But over time she has told me, she kept talking to her ex who she cheated with because she loved him and had a hard time cutting him off. How hypocritical lol? Anyway this is why you go to professionals instead of friends. They’ll have you end your relationship when they’ve gone through the same things and stayed. I know it’s not a competition, her and her hubby are doing well and she did stop.. it gave me hope with my relationship, my husband has finally stopped and we are moving forward.

Just a little thought that came to me