Is it disrespectful to call my boyfriend “bitch” when I’m mad?

Rarely do I get mad enough at him for some disrespectful stuff but I can’t stand how he never listens to me when I talk. He will have a 15 minute story to tell & I’ll listen but if I talk for 3 minutes I get a “aw man blah blah blah” or something, referring to the Instagram video he’s watching. Not even replying to me or letting me finish. Or he’ll just not say anything at all & when I call his name to see if he’s there he’ll say some shit like he said today “oh I was trying to sleep” like we wasn’t in FULL conversation 3 seconds ago! But when I talk you want to go to sleep ???

So I slipped up & said “oh now you want to sleep? bitch, hang up the phone...”