Anyone waiting to get married/have a wedding till they can afford it?

We've been engaged for a year and four months and at first I was looking at venues and wedding dresses, foods, decorations, cakes, invitations, and I mean we could get married whenever cause you can just go to the court for that but I want to get married the same day he asked me to be his girlfriend.

Our second choice was 4/20 of any year lol. But I honestly want to have a big wedding, where both of our families are there (they live all over the states and out of the country), where my dad is able to walk me down the aisle, I want everyone to see how hot af I'll look that day, I also want our kids to be a part of it. But all of that costs moneyyyyy 🙄 lol at least theres saving up!!