Okay so I've decided I want my birth partners to be my boyfriend and my mother.

My mum has always taken a backseat in appointments she has attended, made sure we got what we wanted to ask out first and made this pregnancy really about us. She's asked questions I maybe haven't thought about when the midwife has asked her etcetc.

But my partner some reason has it in his head that my mums going to ruin my birth as it's "our moment". I've told him she's in there to support her daughter and because i want her to be. He's obsessed with the idea of me holding HIS hand not my mums throughout my labour and he's so content about it being about him and "our big moment" yet he fails to see how I wanted my mum there for it too. She's never going to take over she's just there to support me incase there's anything traumatic happening and she knows how it feels so she can help me through contractions.

He wanted to whisk me away after giving birth to his families house once I was discharged aswell as if that's what I wanted.

I've told him to grow up and it's my choice and how he's just being stupid and I'm not going to want to rush to his house just after giving birth. I'll only be 18 when I give birth and I just know I won't feel uo to it😖