Okay so this whole time I’ve been pregnant my biggest question asked is if I want a epidural or do it natural. Literally everyone that I I told natural literally said I’m going to rip from the front to the back and has put me down. My own mom don’t even support the decision. The only person that supports me is my husband. I am 24 weeks and I just need you ladies advice on what I need to do? How to stay calm? What helped you through a natural labor? Should I even do it my first child? I’m very nervous and scared I thought i would have more support than this😢😩