Would you leave

So I am a mother of 4 and my husband and I have been having a lot of issues lately. My family lives about 14 hours away and I am very close to my family. His family all lives where we live and they have literally nothing to do with us. I want to move back home closer to where I will have help and support. I recently had twins well last September and it’s getting very difficult having nobody around ever. So long story short my husband refuses, but at this point I am ready to pack my kids up and leave and if he comes he comes if not see ya later. I have begged and pleaded and he refuses. Where we live is beautiful and where I grew up is a small town I have a lot of family out there. But I am starting to see that my husband is very selfish and is putting his needs before his family’s well being. We sit home every single day with absolutely no one while my husband works. He makes $30 an hour but he could EASILY get a job back home and be making well over $35 benefits and a pension. I am literally ready to walk and not look back. Am I wrong?