My husband has been good to me and sweet majority of the time but when he gets just a bit stressed out or upset he will take it out on me and say he hates me and that I ruined his life. I know it's mental abuse that should not be tolerated. When he treats me this way my heart breaks and I just want to leave and forget about him. But I cannot distinguish if he is sick or he really hates me? I know he has some sort of mental illness undiagnosed but when he says he hates me I'm not sure if it's due to his illness. I actually do believe he hates me when he tells me, but when I tell him I am going to leave he says no and doesn't want a broken up family and that he loves me and the baby growing inside of me. He tells me he is stressed with work and stressed out even more when I bring up certain stuff. I am stuck between packing up and leaving or helping him out, but I do want to know if he is bipolar/sick or truly hates me from his heart. I don't want to bring my baby into a toxic household. I rather be alone raising him than my husband saying he hates me when he is upset.