Is it just me? (A short Rant)

So my boyfriend and I always fight over this, and honestly idk what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for like 10 months and we always see and text each other. Usually he always comes to my house because he doesn’t like going to his house to hangout which I respect of course. But sometimes he’ll just show up out of no where to my house and sometimes we’ll agree to see each other the next day and he’ll act like we didn’t even make plans? And it bugs me because he always comes over whenever he wants and I don’t like it. I’ve told him and he gets mad saying he comes and does everything he can To see me. Yesterday, we were supposed to hang out but instead he went out with his friends. I don’t have a problem with that but at least have the courtesy to tell me you are canceling on me so I don’t wait for you 🙄🙄🙄 and then I found out by someone else that he did other things than what he told me he did.

I hope i don’t seem controlling? But It just pisses me off that I’m always on stand by for him whenever he feels like it.