Insecurity in Relationships/Marriages

So this is based of the whole Ayesha Curry backlash thing. I understand where she’s coming from. Kinda

I don’t think she meant she wanted men to flock to her the same way women flock to her husband, I feel like she just expressed that she’d like to hear from other people that she’s still attractive. She’s in her 30s, has three children and probably not as confident in her body anymore, plus the world she lives in?

My situation is way different obviously 😂

I was in a 3 year relationship where my ex rarely made me feel beautiful and attractive. On days I felt so low about myself he couldn’t even muster up the words to make me feel better, he literally told me “I don’t know what to say, you look fine” when I told him I felt so ugly and fat when looking for dresses (but could write a whole paragraph to his female friends telling them how attractive they were and why they shouldn’t feel bad)I wouldn’t say I craved other men’s attention but it felt nice being told I looked beautiful or sexy or even just being told my perfume smelt nice. It boosted my confidence. I never sought it out or cheated but it just felt nice when someone else complimented me.

I was talking to a few guys about it and trying to explain this to them they all concluded that she’s just another insatiable house wife that “misses the hoe life” 🙄 they didn’t get it when I said it has nothing to do with “being a hoe”

What are you thoughts on the topic?