I recently met a guy who I actually really like. He's handsome, kind, takes good care of his kids, works... all that good stuff. We've been seeing each other for about 2 months now and things have been good. Its only in the last few weeks that I've become unsure about us but I can't figure out if its because of him or me.... On about 4 occasions he said he was coming to mine but didn't turn up, however I addressed that and he hasn't done it again since... He will let me know if he can't make it which I can't complain about although I'm always left feeling disaapointed. However, I've noticed that everytime we see each other, afterwards or the next day he gets a little distant... I'm not sure why. I saw him on Tuesday and then Wednesday I messaged him in the afternoon to say Hi and he didn't message me back for a couple of hours saying hey... I asked how he was and I didn't hear anything from him again until now.... I just find the behaviour a little odd. I'm not sure what to make of it. I came out of an abusive and toxic relationship at the beginning of last year and I think I'm just a little more sensitive and have a heightened sense of fear and anxiety when it comes to men. I feel like I need someone who's gonna be more consistent and considerate of what I've been through so they wont handle me like any other woman who hasn't been through what I have... He's aware of my situation and at times he's supportive but I often feel like he just checks in on how im doing because it's the right thing to do, not because he genuinely cares. He often abruptly ends the convo after asking how I am and says "I was just making sure you're ok, shout me later." Which is nice of him but I sometimes feel like I wish we could have a really in depth conversation so I could make him understand what I'm going through and that I really do wanna be with him but I'm different from the other women he's probably used to. I'm different but I'm also worth it. I know that. Today I was left feeling low seeing as I hadn't heard from him the whole day. I haven't eaten either because of my anxiety... I'm just not sure what to do now. Advice anyone?