Am I wrong to feel this way ?

Question

I'm a SAHM my husband works as a welder who goes out of town occasionally this week he had to go to Vegas hes been gone since Monday.  Its currently 3:51am and hes still out gambling drunk. I told him to go back to his room and sleep since he has work later all he keeps saying is hes not doing anything wrong . I'm honestly upset since hes been there hes been drunk every night having fun while I'm home dealing with a fussy baby. I never get time to do things like that if I do have a night out im just thinking of our baby. I just want some time to relax alone! I'm jealous that he gets to be out having fun without the worry of anything. Every time he goes out of town for work he ends up out drunk staying up late but when hes home hes soo tired by 9pm. Am I wrong to feel like this ? Am I just being a bitch ? Honestly I feel childish to feel this way but I cant help it !
UPDATE: I went to bed woke up with the baby at 8am saw the last time he read my message and was on Facebook was at 630am I called him it was ringing he didn't answer I tried two more times and this last time he turned his phone off !

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Honestly that would not be okay to me. Not okay is he drinking, but he’s doing god knows what else, spending your family’s money. Not okay. I would have a long talk with him in the morning

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It's pretty normal to feel that way  - but my opinion is, let them get it out of their system while they're away, because when they go out and get drunk and are useless and don't help the next day at home, that bugs me more. When he gets back, organise a girls night and have some fun :)

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I mean it definitely makes sense that you feel that way. I would tell him if he wants to do all that fine, but he needs to give you a break too. Also I understand him being tired early at home and being able to stay up super late when he’s out partying. That’s just how it is... people can stay up later because of the extra stimulation and alcohol.
I agree that he’s not doing anything wrong, and when he’s out you need to let him go to bed when he chooses because he’s a big boy. But he definitely needs to give you a break too, and if he won’t/can’t, he needs to stop. I’m all about things being “fair” and both people being able to do what they want and both parenting the baby.

Am I wrong to feel this way ?

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