Kinda happy kinda dissapointed

So I've bugged my S.O. the last year about having a baby and getting married well ive stoped asking for the last few months cause I just figured when time was right it would happen.... So my mom is in the hospital and I'm here visiting her everyday she tells me hey so umm Tony got u a ring! I'm like ok ya right shes like no he did! Well now I'm upset cause im not excited becasue I wanted to be should i ask him about it? P.s she cant keep a secret to save her life!