I need help ladies

Kay • Tall. Hot. Red. Curvy.

So, I haven’t been able to have sex for a long time, I haven’t been able to have sex ever. The problem is I’ve never felt aroused in my life, there’s nothing there that can get me aroused. I want to have sex or at least feel something so badly but I’ve never felt any kind of pleasure down there. The doctor told me it’s my fault, it’s all in my head, and I’m too uptight to feel anything. What the hell do I do?