Bad day

It's been s hard day. First of all I love my little one and my husband but I'm tired and today just kind of sucked. I do all of the night feedings and my husband takes the first early morning feeding. I exclusively pump so we both can feed her. But because I pump I still have to get up and pump every time she feeds. Today my little girl just would not go down for anything, she'd eat, I'd change her diaper I'd hold her, sing to her put her in her swing whatever I could think of and she just wouldn't take a nap for longer than 30 minutes at a time. I was so frustrated I finally took her to bed with me this afternoon and laid down with her on my chest to get her to sleep. Which worked until I tried to get up and lay her down in her own bed. My husband finally got her to sleep a little over an hour ago while I fixed dinner. I had been spit up on and covered in all sorts of things from the day so I had stripped down to my robe. So there I am sitting in the living room, basically naked in my short robe trying to enjoy a bit of peace and eat my dinner when my BIL shows up with his girlfriend unannounced.. Now I'm hiding out in my room and I can't stop crying.. I feel like I've had a very unsuccessful day, I'm stressed, tired and my head hurts. It's just been a long day.. Pic of my LO