I need advice

I don’t know who to turn to other than this community.

I’m 6weeks pregnant and have only told a few close friends that I have had prior commitments to that I’m going through this amazing experience.

I really want to tell my mom. We’re so close and I feel weird not telling her and my dad. But my husband is playing the “fair” card and doesn’t want to tell my family until we are ready to also ready to tell his.

The problem with this is, my family consists of my mom, dad, and single brother. All of which understand the importance that my secrets are mine to share and mine only.

His family on the other hand, consists of his parents, two siblings and their spouses, a close set of aunts and uncles with cousins and a grandma, totalling 13 people. They are not great at keeping secrets to themselves and have been nagging us for years to give them a grandchild, so I know their excitement will drive their desire to share the news.

I guess my question is, do I keep the hurt inside that I’m feeling for not telling my parents to keep both families in the dark, or do I tell my parents (like my whole body and soul is telling me to do) and risk everyone we know knowing because we’d inevitably have to tell his parents.