I think I’m falling out of love with my husband...

I still care for him and I want the best for him but I feel like lately things aren’t the same.

We argue a lot about simple things. We have an eight month old daughter who he says is spoiled because she always wants either me or my mom and literally cries as if someone was hurting her if we walk away from her.

The sex has been bland. I hardly ever feel in the mood to give it to him and he’s complained about it which I know he has a right to. It’s just I don’t feel sexually attracted to him anymore. Last time we had sex I had to fantasize about being another person to be able to get turned on. I felt horrible about it but I was trying to get it.

He tends to make sex one sided. He will want blowjobs and want me to do all the work. I’ve have come to hate blowjobs since being with him. We’ve been together five years and married for two of them.

I’m worried about where this is going. I want to talk to him about how I feel but I worry this would be the breaking point for us since he already has problems at work, doesn’t feel like the baby likes him, and I’m dealing with PPD.

Sorry if this turned into a ramble. Idk what to do or how to bring this up to a friend.

Ugh.