Am I wrong?

How important is sex in a relationship to you? Ok so me and my partner we rarely have sex but when we do it’s pretty much of him I would say “jacking off in me” since I don’t orgasm * at least that’s what my OB says* but any who we get into arguments all the time and I tell him he doesn’t make me happy when it comes to our sex life and he always say what? You want somebody else? The sex always last from 1-2mins! I just let him catch his nut, I go clean up and I roll back! So I bought a toy to satisfy my needs he finds it and throw it away, I mean the sex is WHACK! He doesn’t even give me oral but he always request it, he says because he don’t know how to do it but I tell him it’s a learned thing I could teach you. He only tries to do things like that when we get into fights/arguments, like no but His sex is NOT what made me fall in love with him but if we gone be together at least give me 1 night of your best or something!!!!