Living with a cheater

Update 5/20: I finally have some hard evidence I don’t think he can lie his way out of. I went to throw something away in our recycling outside and found a Starbucks cup with her name on it (1 of 2 orders). I didn’t say anything to him. I took a picture of it and have the cup in safe keeping in my house somewhere.

Going to get some legal advice soon and then it’s ultimatum time. He still hasn’t admitted to what’s going on. He’s in too deep of a spell that I don’t think anything is going to wake him up unless I take some action. Still nervous about finances but I have to put my bitch boots on now.

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Long story short, I know my husband is having an affair. He has been denying it but today I got proof and saw him with her. I thought he saw me, but I don’t think he did😂 I’m actually laughing at this point because he preceded to make up another lie about his whereabouts.

This is the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with, but I’m keeping quiet and being sweet as pie, dolling up and doing more for myself lately.

He knows I know about her and the nonstop texting but I think he believes that’s all I know.

Basically I am just trying to gather evidence and save some more money before I really call him out.

I know some of you might think I’m crazy for not leaving him now, but I’m just trying to protect myself and my daughter.

There isn’t much of a point to this post other than I need somewhere to vent because I’ve only talked to my best friend about it and needed to tell someone and you ladies can usually be very supportive! ❤️

ETA—- I am trying to gather enough evidence and save money before I can confidently walk. I have zero support where we live. That’s how I’m protecting her. She has never seen me cry I am only showing her my confidence and happiness. ❤️

5/16 Edit::: Thank you all for your sweet words. A part of me wishes he would fess up and apologize for what he’s been doing because deep down I don’t want them to end up together and have their “happily ever after.” The thought of this woman being my daughter’s step mother makes me sick. What a great role model... a husband stealer. It’s a tough pill to swallow but slowly becoming my reality.