Why is it so difficult

Question

Trying to conceive since a year ...all test normal ..but no bfp..come from a orthodox family who r breathing over my neck for pregnancy..planning for iui next month (which i never thought il need and not keen also).Ppl all around me are having babies making me superb jealous and depressing 😣😔😔

Answer

Sometimes it just happens faster for some than others and it's only been a year; that's perfectly normal.  And honestly, the pressure to get pregnant is not helping at all.  There's a reason why the 'a watched pot never boils' saying is very much a thing.  Try to not let family pressure get to you and relax.  More than one woman on here has gotten pregnant when they weren't even actually trying.

Answer

I understand your pain. You are not alone. 
We have been trying for much longer than a year and just had our first Iui. Praying it took. 
I work for a catholic organization, and they do not pay anything fertility. We have to pay everything out of pocket. 
Not sure how many more cycles we can afford .. we are in NY and everything is expensive.
Give yourself time, and try not to stress.
When family asks when will we have a baby, i just answer, whenever God wants to send it. 
:)

Why is it so difficult

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