Help please 😳

Hey everyone!

I’m having a slight issue and I’m just getting frustrated so I’m hoping someone on here will be able to help...

I’m a virgin and I just bought my first dildo.. I tried to use it for the first time and I physically can’t get it all the way in without it hurting. I’ve tried lube but I don’t know if maybe I’m too tight or just not relaxed enough but I feel pretty stupid that I can’t do it ☹️

Any advice / tips would be appreciated ❤️