So this is a rant page and I’m just going to rant about the thing that has irritated me the most! Hopefully some of you can relate. I usually brush it off but still always catches me off guard.

So I am 19 weeks pregnant. I told people pretty early. I was super excited and couldn’t wait to tell everyone.

Now I know people give advice. I’m perfectly okay with it. I’m okay with the touching, the “how do u feel” never ending question, etc. but what I can’t stand is when someone asks me a question related to pregnancy or after birth, I then asked said question, and the proceed to tell me that I can’t do it, I’ll be too tired, “oh you will see” and literally laugh at me.

It’s my first baby so I’m sure I’m being over the top! But can’t you just let me try first before giving me all that negativity! The biggest things these people go after me for are: I do NOT want the baby in my bedroom/crib train early (unless sick or something), I want to either make my own baby food or do baby led weaning, I am going to take my child to daycare at 6 weeks old (that’s where I work), I don’t think they should have pacifiers after they get teeth or close to 1 years old, I didn’t get a flu shot( never had one before), This is just some of them.

I know everyone doesn’t agree on things and every parent is different! But why literally put me down for it already!

Anyone else get “picked on” for choices!