BF/ cheating friend/ other people’s problems

My bfs friend (we’ll call him Tom) is in a relationship. The past few weeks they have been getting into fights and she kicked him out her house. Tom then goes and bums out in my bf’s house (we’ll call my bf Rick). While at ricks house, Tom starts texting this girl named Jane. Supposedly she is his coworker and has a man if her own.

A few days later after the first fight Tom’s girlfriend accuses him of cheating on her with Jane while he was staying at Ricks house. I mean that is understandable considering Tom and Jane went to go hang out during booty call hours.

Eventually they “make up” and Tom goes back to his girlfriends house.

Now here’s where the problem I’m having comes in. It’s not my business right? I shouldn’t even know what the hell is happening right? A few weeks ago my bf and I argued about this app and how I would tell him some of the posts. He told me “I don’t want to hear about anyone else’s problems because I have problems of my own”. Ok I get it. Seems fair so I stopped.

Yesterday rick and another friend called Cam were supposed to have a “bro’s night”. That is until Tom calls Rick and asks him to drop him off at Janes house because him and his gf got into another argument. Rick tell Tom no and that he’s not getting into his business. Tom then asks Cam and Cam says ok. Cam claims that he won’t bring Tom to janes house and that he won’t allow him to cheat.

Rick picks me up to go to his house all the while telling me “I’m not going to get into ricks business”. After telling me this over and over , he continues to talk about it. “Did you know Tom was texting Jane kissy face emojis and that’s why his gf thinks he’s cheating “ blah blah blah. More information that is not my business.

We get to his house and he disappears for like twenty minutes. He comes back to the room and I ask him what he was doing. He tells me he went to the bathroom and called jane. He was talking to her about Tom.

LIKE WTF YOU JUST TOLD ME IT WASNT OUR BUSINESS AND THAT WE NEED TO STAY OUT OF IT AND HERE YOU ARE CALLING HER AND TALKING ABOUT IT!!!!!

In all honestly this whole ass story I just told you isn’t the point as to why I’m mad. I’m just mad because he kept telling me that we need to stay out of it and here he is butting in.