So my mom and I were never close while I was growing up becuz I am the oldest and she always expected n wanted me to do what she wanted etc. We weren't close at all until I got married back in 2007 and distance made us realize a lot of things and made us a bit closer than we ever were. My family had been having issues of my parents planning to move away nxt yr and my parents r having issues dealing with my youngest teen brother etc so things have been rough for them. I recently had told my mother that they should get him some professional help with his anger issues towards everything in his life (he's 17 and struggling to finish high school so hes in a alternative) and everytime they mention it he tells then hes going to kill himself if they force him to get professional help. So now he's got my mother thinking I hate him and want to ruin his life n I am never supportive and he wants nothing to do with me n he doesnt want them to listen to me etc. So my mother has been stressed about everything and giving me shit about being part of the reason my brother is getting worst etc and I am fed up and dont want or need her to b present when I give birth in August. I have other stress in my personal life that I have to deal with and with my mom blaming my brothers issues on me is making me have no hope for my family and me being pregnant is jus making everything worst than it already is. I dont know how to tell my.mom I dont want her around when the baby comes but I know its going to make her more stress if I tell her...I dont know how to go about this...any suggestions? :-(