Husband&alarm advice

-alya

My husband works 1st shift, sets his alarm for two hours before he wants to leave ...but it gets snoozed for 1.5 hours and during those 1.5 hours, I’m waking him up due to him sleeping through his alarm.

Listening to music then the sudden change used to wake him up but it doesn’t anymore. He doesn’t want to go to bed at 9 bc it makes him “feel old.”

We’ve tried bed wrestling lol but it doesn’t make him tired anymore - he used to fall asleep within 10 minutes but now he says it makes him wide awake.

Help!😩