First time mom over here... Although I never liked the idea of pacifiers for babies. But now that my daughter is born my husband thinks we should give her a pacifier whenever she cries.. which I don't like it.. I've read about how it can be bad for their teeth and sucking/chewing.. so for me is a no, but not for my husband and is an argument that I don't know what else to do as I want him to be part of taking care of her but makes me nervous to know he will give her the pacifier when I'm not around. By the way my daughter is 3weeks old, sometimes she's not the best sleeping baby and gets fuzzy for everything, sometimes she is and she just eats and sleeps like a good baby. But at this point I don't know what to think about pacifiers... My mom and grandma are all about against it, and I keep hearing about it and I agree but I feel bad to keep disagreeing with my husband about something small like this that I don't like..