I'm currently a friends with benefits and the sucky thing is I don't want to be. He isn't forcing me it's just he doesn't want a gf right now and wants to focus on himself. he is super funny and besides the sex he is a good friend and super nice. I agreed to this because 1. He was a virgin and he said he wanted to lose it to someone he liked and said he liked me and i felt so apperciated that he wanted me to be his first. 2. I like him and want some part of him even if it's not a relationship, how lame am I..lol. So my question is, do i get him a birthday gift with the position i'm in or is it pushing the envelope to in? I know i won't get a relationship out of this I just feel sad cause he will be alone that day. Thanks for reading